by the way, since we’re talking about r/tumblrinaction, i just thought you should all know that they literally encourage their users to go through these tags to pick on people, so i’d be wary about tagging stuff so it appears in these tags.
as was stated before, a lot of redditors use an entry youre featured on to send you anon hate, reblog your post to unsafe people, etc. so they might find you through these tags. a good way to avoid this is to put letters/numbers/symbols after the trigger, so you could put say #ableism 890283948 or #fatphobia djflksjdfj or #racism /// (like i do!). make sure if you do this theres a space between the trigger and the letters/numbers/symbols.
if you’d like you can signal boost this so your followers know to watch out
So that’s what the /// after TWs were for! Doing this from now on.
As of late, I don’t know how to tell apart whenever I just don’t feel like going out, to those times when I really *can’t* get out of my house.
That part that goes like “yeah, you don’t feel like going out but you know you should do it anyway” lately has become more like “you don’t feel right about going out? fuck it, don’t do it”. I guess I’ve become more self indulgent, and I hate being self indulgent.
Has anyone felt like this too? Like you have become an undisciplined softie?
❝ Fetishes, on their own, aren’t harmful, wrong, or shameful things. Whatever floats your boat is fine—as long as it harms no one. The important element to fetishes that don’t harm people, though, is that they all involve a degree of performance and the ability to move in and out of fetish space. If you have a thing for people wearing ostrich-feather tails, your partner is free to prance around the house in hot pants and a tail as often as she likes; and when she’s not into it, she can put the tail away.
Racial fetishes, however, are based on objectifying someone because of her race, which isn’t something she can control. An Asian woman can’t choose to take her Asianness off for the day, a Black woman can’t decide to not be Black while she walks down the street. These are lived, inhabited identities that cannot be turned on and off; there is no safeword for race. You live these identities throughout your life, experiencing the good and bad things associated with them, interacting with your community through and around this identity.
Someone who says he (and it is usually a he) ‘prefers’ women of a specific race isn’t exercising a preference based on orientation or experience. He’s viewing certain kinds of women as dateable material on the basis of racial discrimination; and it’s telling that most men with racial ‘preferences’—which are really racial fetishes—use very racist, stereotypical descriptions when talking about why they ‘prefer’ women of specific races. Asian women are meek, say, or Latinas are fiery, or Black women are exotic and know how to deliver in bed. ❞
Things That Shouldn’t Need To Be Said: Racial Fetishes Edition – this ain’t livin’ (via shinobody)
Why I am not here for race players and racial fetishizers.
rupert giles + food/beverages
look out world, july cinnabon flavored coffee chillatta is on his way
October fruit loops is hittin the streets
May Veggie Burger
~ How do you all feel about May Banana? ~
April Crackers Nutella
I kinda like it.
Appy on the street in Harajuku at night with a resale checkered coat, Vivienne Westwood bag & Murua platform boots. Full look.
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